Feminism & The Bio-security State — Letter From A Father

Jon Shields (pseudonym)
[Names and identifying details
have been changed to protect
the privacy of individuals. -Ed.
]

Winter, Spring 2021


Dear Mary,

I’m writing this letter in an effort to finally make you understand (1). I believe it will require a considerable effort on your part to achieve new insights and to liberate yourself from your habitual ways of thinking, from whatever you’ve been used to and from what you have taken as life’s givens. Let me begin in this way:

«I greet you from the other side, Of sorrow and despair, With a love so vast and shattered, It will reach you everywhere.» ~ Leonard Cohen

We’re a [feminist state] now, and when we act, we create our own reality. And while you [men] are studying that reality — judiciously, as you will — we’ll act again, creating other new realities, which you can study too, and that’s how things will sort out. We’re history’s actors...and you, all of you [men], will be left to just study what we do (X).

Mary, like I said in a text message in September, we haven’t met since February 19th (2020). That’s a very long time with regard to parents and their children. For many years now I’ve also noticed that you have seemed to want to limit your contact with me, and that you were angry with me, and didn’t want to see me very much. But after the covid-19 crisis in 2020 (the «pandemic»), this has become ever more apparent to me, probably because the crisis with its associated fearmongering has activated unsolved problems, both yours and mine.

If you’ve been angry with me, that’s ok. It is acceptable to be angry with someone. Society tends to suppress this emotion because it is considered inappropriate. Society is not always right. We need to find out why we are angry, if this is at all possible. But most of all, we need to avoid getting attached to our anger. We've made it ourselves and therefore we can let it go. Let us also keep in mind the difference between anger and aggression. The former is an emotion, the latter a type of behaviour. Emotions come and go, a bit like clouds do. They should be allowed to do so.

As a matter of principle, I’ve never spoken to you about your mother even though I’ve been angry with her. Yes, there was a lot to be angry about. As I see it, it is necessary that I now tell you a little about it. I believe you need to get a clearer view of the way that you’ve been brought up. That’s why I now have to include her in the analysis. I really wish I didn’t have to do this. Here is your main problem: Your mother has taken advantage of you by establishing a relationship with you based on her needs, not yours. (I will explain below.) This began at an early stage when you were a child and has continued up till now. It is difficult to change things at this late stage.


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